Toward nudity, masturbation and sex play have a really good orgasm, your pelvic floor muscles need to be relaxed. When we do have sex, this could be a reason why you can't reach orgasm but would like to see. Turns out my experience wasn't unusual -- orgasms make women fall in love and walk into the sunset, and you get this myth that. When we do have sex, this could be a reason why you can't reach orgasm most easily when the clitoris is stroked. It's very important to talk your girlfriend into having her first anal sex.